How To Be Happy And Enjoy Life…

You can worry for material things if you were born along with them. I am absolutely sure, I was not. Material things are hurdles to happiness in our life. If you think you are here for just earning money and basking in luxury, then you are deceiving yourself. Self-deception leads to sadness.

When I was a kid, every time I used to come across a sad face, I always wondered, “why is he serious, why doesn’t he smile?” These questions always bothered me.

With time, I understood that majority of us are fighting with ourselves. No other person is responsible for snatching our happiness. We are forcing ourselves every day to neglect this precious gift of life.

Before going deep into the thought, let me define happiness.

Happiness is a stage where heart, brain and soul are tuned in at the same frequency. If either of them stays out of tune, happiness will not stay there for long.

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  • Perceiving: It seems small and insignificant, but it is rather a very effective tool to implement when working towards a happier mindset. It acts as a fulcrum for life and so the happiness.

 I have heard lot of people who say that if you want to feel happy, just be happy; but it did not convince me. I asked them to elaborate and their answer was the same again “Just be happy.”

Every time people come across this question, they blurt out the same robotic answer; a fact which left me with a major conclusion, “All of us  are pretending to be happy…but… in reality, no one is actually happy.”

So, giving in to my curiosity and the wish to make sure that I don’t fall prey to this trap of ‘Pretentious Happiness’, I decided to implement some ways, which, according to me, will help me to build a truly happier mindset….

I was in the middle of the day and started perceiving that “I am happy” irrespective of the material gains or possessions. I started doing it, I started to look for happier people and faces around me, tried smiling genuine and unconditional smiles. And I must say, that although it doesn’t sound like a huge feat in my pursuit, but it had a major impact in my day, I genuinely felt happier.

But, when I tried to inculcate this habit further, I ran across a major road block…Often, when we try to work on such abstract ideas, our minds often questions it, asking us regarding the practical and logical aspects of it! And, not to mention, here too, my mind pulled me back, deeming this feat to be wastage of time. Well, If I may, I must warn you here. This is your defense mechanism, playing tricks on you! Living in a world as fast-paced as ours, we are too habitual to sadness, hence, whenever we try to act otherwise, our mind tries to deceive us into believing that it’s not something normal or worthwhile!
So, I took a deep breathe and continued in my quest to be happy , unconditionally!

      

 

 

 

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Journey of miles with nothingness

Life is in an auto mode and we try to control it. I see,observe around and find that almost every person is worried and spending precious life in acquiring duplicate things,those have no value in the journey of life. When an infant takes birth and starts learning cognitively,observes that every one is talking about material possession. For every thing to achieve material possession is considered apparently important.baby

Everyone around him is quoting an example of the person having more material possession and this way he understands the concept of life is “possession of material things” and that is the major glitch a person understands. This way it has become fashion for the society to have more and this act of achieving something more leads to stress and finally a bag full of stress, which does not allow you to enjoy your life.

We are not here to collect things; to prove our possession over them and to announce our-self as a billionaire, no not at all; rather we’re here to enjoy them with vigor of life.

We’re in the journey of life since long and every time we wish for possession and that makes our life dull.” Life is not at all a race for achieving material things, it is actually a journey of miles where you have to achieve nothing and enjoy everything.

Enjoy everything which comes your way and do not worry for material things,ignore them;once you’ll do this, material things will start coming your way to prove their existence.

Enjoy the journey of life where everything exists with nothing.

 

 

 

 

Love!

I usually think about how would be the life of first Adam and First Eve on Earth.This thought gives me goose bumps when I think that how they’d have addressed the challenges for their survival. How they’d have known each other.How they’d have understood the concept of reproduction.How they’d have understood the application of brain for addressing different situations.

Love

Till the time Mr.Adam hadn’t found the Ms.Eve,he would’ve felt lonely.May be life for him is merely wandering in woods in search of food.What would be the situation when Mr.Adam had met Ms.Eve for the first time.Would it be love at first sight or they got frightened from each other.

Till the time they wouldn’t have understood their compatibility,woods were the only friends for both of them.Game of survival was the only means of life.I am sure both Mr.Adam and Ms.Eve were playing this game with woods fairly well.Slowly they became aware of the process of survival and they made that life routine and started repeating the process everyday.

Everyday while repeating the secure life routine whenever they’d have face any new situation which they felt dangerous for their survival.They tried to find the solution and adopted it in their secure life routine and felt contented.After this they formed tribe which led to village and slowly to big cities.

Once the concept of village and big cities started,one enemy named “The act of possession” has silently entered the brain of Mr.Adam and Ms.Eve. The act of possession has started a latent act called race for possession of material things.This act of possession has endangered the life of woods,even human being itself.

Firstly this act has caused a conflict between two tribes followed by villages and then by countries.There is no doubt that the act of possession lead to war between good relations.Here I’d like to mention “LOVE” can conquer this. When I say love, it means love which has sense of sacrifice for others.Unfortunately this type of love has vanished from our life style.We love only material things.

Love is such a powerful tool which makes everything beautiful around you.It instantly removes the negative of everything provided it is unconditional and does not have lust in it.

Only love can bring the peace across the globe.

Dreams

All of us have big aspirations.Everyday,every moment our goals and dreams change so our aspirations. This continues till the time we do not face the reality.Why I am saying this because dreams grow only in hallucination.In reality 99 percent of people admit that the profession they’re pursuing they’ve never planned even in their dreams.That creates big mirage and this way we keep swinging our-self in our dreams.

No doubt that ambition is everything;dreams and aspirations are steps to achieve our aim.Dream does not happen at all what happens is dream.Human being is an emotional creature ,we’re an epitome of mistakes but the biggest of them all is our want to reach our dreams failing to realize we already live in one.

Things do not happen in two situations one when we are lazy;two when we are crazy.We usually dream in two situation either when we’re lazy or when we’re crazy. The biggest hallucination is we’re dreaming in a dream and this makes us sometime lazy and sometime crazy.

Reason for failure of dreams is we dream when we are lazy and plan schemes when we are crazy.Do not be Lazy & Crazy,live your dream fully because you are already successful and your journey to Earth proves this.

Life!

Everyone is exploring life.Some are exploring to have more and more from it and some are exploring to know more and more from it. Both the acts lead to accumulation aren’t they? Almost everyone around the globe think,plan and act to accumulate more.Everyone is working hard and applying new strategies everyday to have more.

The act of accumulating things in terms of money and knowledge is merely a deception. We deceive our mind by doing so and think that we are successful in life because we have accumulated more.We all are in a race of accumulation aren’t we?Does success really mean accumulation of money and knowledge? It’s a big question and may force many to ponder upon.

What I think accumulation of money and knowledge is conditioning of wallet and brain as per existing norms of the society.

I am presenting a different version of life to you.In real, life is not about accumulation rather it is about dissipation and distribution.More you distribute more successful you’ll feel.He who gives is respected and worshiped across the universe.

Life will give you more if you’ll distribute more.Let’s talk is working hard to distribute inspiration across the globe to make people feel happy in their life.

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Interaction with God !

RHave you ever interacted with him?There is no doubt that interaction acts as adhesive for every type of relation.Since,ancient times human being is interacting with God sometime knowingly and sometime unknowingly. How do you nurture your relations with people in the society? I am sure your answer would be ” Through Interactions only”

You might think, what is the role of interaction with God in daily inspiration? Let me tell you our mood swings depend upon our daily interaction with God.This thought may seem bit bizarre to you,because we’re living in the era of technology;where everything wants logic for acceptance.Physics has a major role in our daily life;whatever we see and touch is related to physics.Here question arises how physics helps us in “Interaction with God”?

We’re living in a universe which has infinite parallel universe.Actually it is tough to believe in today’s era.Quantum physics,a branch of physics that explains the nature and behavior of matter and energy.Quantum physics tells us about power and also explains that power can not be seen it but can be experienced only.

God is superpower,hence to interact with him we need to tune our-self with him at the same frequency.We should resonate at the same frequency to interact and interpret his message.

Keep doing different because visible is illusion and invisible is life.

 

 

In Search of……

Why so much of stress,chasing,worries,hypertension and tears? What we want to prove and to whom? There is only one objective of everyone’s life and that is “Happiness”.

Happiness is not available on any grocer’s shop.Okay ! just ask yourself right now;are you really happy? If answer to your question is ,yes, Feel blessed and enjoy your happiness.If answer to your question is ,No; retrospect yourself.

We’re blessed with following powers

  1. Power to feel happy.
  2. Imagination Power.
  3. Calibration Power.
  4. Determination power.

DETERMINATION

We use almost all powers within us but one power we do not use up-to its full potential that is determination power.It is such a gift to us with which we can convert our imagination into reality.With the use of this power we can reach our ultimate goal of happiness.

Keep searching your goal with determination power; you’ll definitely find it .