Are you living your life without any pressure?Ask yourself right now.May be you are feeling bit surprised. This is a fact almost every one of us is living with a big monster to be called as “SOCIAL PRESSURE”. I am sure you’d be surprised while relating it with inspiration.Let me tell you this monster plays a big role in our inspirational levels.
Before taking a roller Coaster ride on this thought let me explain it to you, What is social pressure?
“Social pressure is direct pressure from the society,peers and it encourages us to follow the society and our peers in their way to earn majority and wow .”
Most of us forget our real objective of life and start impressing the society and peers by following their way like; if someone has girl friend or boy friend why don’t I do have,if someone use to have drinks in the party then why don’t I do,If someone has luxury car,apartment and dress then why don’t I do have. This way we silently become a slave to the big monster and to fulfill those bad desires unknowingly we start compromising our values,our leadership instinct and lose our-self in the crowd and become common person in an uncommon way.
Art of Handling Social pressure:
Remember;I am not recommending that we should not honor our society and peers,we ought to; but we must honor our-self too.
- Listen,observe and react smartly for every situation created by society and peers.
- Have guts to say “NO” straightway for the situation which you do not like remember this NO will generate leadership quality in you.
- Instead of feeling complexes try to increase your intellect level so that people can understand your view-point.
- Clap along if you feel you are right and feel happy.
- Follow your brain instead of heart.
- Try to tell your peers the benefits of following their brain.
Hence avoid social pressures and live happily.
Every-morning,everyday;Universe spreads its arms and embrace us,gives us new day,new life and new moments to share with.Most of the time I get a good feelings that we are born everyday to enjoy. Universal rhythm helps us in creation.Most of us are afraid of from our future whereas some of us keep our-self cling to our past.This act of ours keep away our exuberance to enjoy life.
Do you remember your acts during your childhood?Do you remember the freedom you’ve enjoyed?Do you remember your liveliness? Excitement was there with you all the time during your childhood.Therefore,you must agree that everyone should have deep understanding of what exactly exuberance is,and of the laws governing its attraction.Yet,the sad fact is that not one person in hundred does.
Exuberance and freedom are the two most important parameters to live our life king style.Our exuberance and freedom vanishes where fear comes into the picture.Fear fend off exuberance and freedom.
We are born to be free and live our life in our way socially with exuberance.Recall when you felt butterflies in your belly,when you felt happiness where you and your soul both were happy.If this moment comes everyday in your life then feel blessed and understand you’re living in synchronization with universe.
You know why majority of people live in stress because they’re competing for ownership;they want to posses everything around them in this world and this snatches away their freedom and excitement.
“Freedom is in gratification not in ownership”-Rajesh Walecha
Exuberance comes with freedom;live free and live with excitement always.My question to you is are you here to collect gravels,stones,walls of bricks and concrete and paper.I am sure your answer will be “NO”.If it is so then go enjoy and spread your arms for universe and say,” Universe,I love you.”
This is your life,your moment and your universe, enjoy and live freely with exuberance.
Are you really free?
Merely saying the word “Freedom” does not make us free.We all are living in the lockup of thoughts.
If you want to live free then leave the thoughts’ tree.
We all are in a grip of thoughts.I am sure this is giving you little bit of uncanny feelings,but this is true.
Thoughts are not actually lockup basically they are flow of universal energy.They become lockup when we cling to them and start flowing with them.
We can feel free and call our-self a free individual, when we are not affected by our thoughts.
We usually live our life in the shadow of thoughts and even do not try to decode them.
When we wake up in the morning we feel enthusiastic,happy and prosperous,but the moment brain initiates thought process we decide the type of day and life we’ll have ahead.This is what which is happening with every individual in this world.No matter,how rich or poor the person is but he is infected with thoughts’ lockup.
How to free ourselves from the lockup of thoughts.
This is not an easy process to make our-self free from the lockup of thoughts but it is not impossible.
- The first important step to make yourself free is to whack all the fears,because you are here to live for not to die for.
- Whenever any negative thought comes to your mind do not cling to it,let it go.
- Feel you are a king of your individuality hence live like king.
- Avoid social pressures.
- Leave the mindset of “What others will say”.
- Tell yourself everyday that you are a free bird.
- Learn wisdom.
Break the walls of thoughts and make yourself free and live like king.