How To Be Happy And Enjoy Life…

You can worry for material things if you were born along with them. I am absolutely sure, I was not. Material things are hurdles to happiness in our life. If you think you are here for just earning money and basking in luxury, then you are deceiving yourself. Self-deception leads to sadness.

When I was a kid, every time I used to come across a sad face, I always wondered, “why is he serious, why doesn’t he smile?” These questions always bothered me.

With time, I understood that majority of us are fighting with ourselves. No other person is responsible for snatching our happiness. We are forcing ourselves every day to neglect this precious gift of life.

Before going deep into the thought, let me define happiness.

Happiness is a stage where heart, brain and soul are tuned in at the same frequency. If either of them stays out of tune, happiness will not stay there for long.

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  • Perceiving: It seems small and insignificant, but it is rather a very effective tool to implement when working towards a happier mindset. It acts as a fulcrum for life and so the happiness.

 I have heard lot of people who say that if you want to feel happy, just be happy; but it did not convince me. I asked them to elaborate and their answer was the same again “Just be happy.”

Every time people come across this question, they blurt out the same robotic answer; a fact which left me with a major conclusion, “All of us  are pretending to be happy…but… in reality, no one is actually happy.”

So, giving in to my curiosity and the wish to make sure that I don’t fall prey to this trap of ‘Pretentious Happiness’, I decided to implement some ways, which, according to me, will help me to build a truly happier mindset….

I was in the middle of the day and started perceiving that “I am happy” irrespective of the material gains or possessions. I started doing it, I started to look for happier people and faces around me, tried smiling genuine and unconditional smiles. And I must say, that although it doesn’t sound like a huge feat in my pursuit, but it had a major impact in my day, I genuinely felt happier.

But, when I tried to inculcate this habit further, I ran across a major road block…Often, when we try to work on such abstract ideas, our minds often questions it, asking us regarding the practical and logical aspects of it! And, not to mention, here too, my mind pulled me back, deeming this feat to be wastage of time. Well, If I may, I must warn you here. This is your defense mechanism, playing tricks on you! Living in a world as fast-paced as ours, we are too habitual to sadness, hence, whenever we try to act otherwise, our mind tries to deceive us into believing that it’s not something normal or worthwhile!
So, I took a deep breathe and continued in my quest to be happy , unconditionally!






Quote Of The Day



Rajesh’s quotes

“The whole universe is alien, our desires make it familiar.”— Rajesh Walecha

Girl Friend,Boy Friend,Drinks and Blah,Blah

Are you living your life without any pressure?Ask yourself right now.May be you are feeling bit surprised. This is a fact almost every one of us is living with a big monster to be called as “SOCIAL PRESSURE”. I am sure you’d be surprised while relating it with inspiration.Let me tell you this monster plays a big role in our inspirational levels.

Before taking a roller Coaster ride on this thought let me explain it to you, What is social pressure?

“Social pressure is direct pressure from the society,peers and it encourages us to follow the society and our peers in their way to earn majority and wow .”

Most of us forget our real objective of life and start impressing the society and peers by following their way like; if someone has girl friend or boy friend why don’t I do have,if someone use to have drinks in the party then why don’t I do,If someone has luxury car,apartment and dress then why don’t I do have. This way we silently become a slave to the big monster and to fulfill those bad desires unknowingly we start compromising our values,our leadership instinct and lose our-self in the crowd and become common person in an uncommon way.

Art of Handling Social pressure:

Remember;I am not recommending that we should not honor our society and peers,we ought to; but we must honor our-self too.

  • Listen,observe and react smartly for every situation created by society and peers.
  • Have guts to say “NO” straightway for the situation which you do not like remember this NO will generate leadership quality in you.
  • Instead of feeling complexes try to increase your intellect level so that people can understand your view-point.
  • Clap along if you feel you are right and feel happy.
  • Follow your brain instead of heart.
  • Try to tell your peers the benefits of following their brain.

Hence avoid social pressures and live happily.



Every-morning,everyday;Universe spreads its arms and embrace us,gives us new day,new life and new moments to share with.Most of the time I get a good feelings that we are born everyday to enjoy. Universal rhythm helps us in creation.Most of us are afraid of from our future whereas some of us keep our-self cling to our past.This act of ours keep away our exuberance to enjoy life.

Do you remember your acts during your childhood?Do you remember the freedom you’ve enjoyed?Do you remember your liveliness? Excitement was there with you all the time during your childhood.Therefore,you must agree that everyone should have deep understanding of what exactly exuberance is,and of the laws governing its attraction.Yet,the sad fact is that not one person in hundred does.

Exuberance and freedom are the two most important parameters to live our life king style.Our exuberance and freedom vanishes where fear comes into the picture.Fear fend off exuberance and freedom.

We are born to be free and live our life in our way socially with exuberance.Recall when you  felt butterflies in your belly,when you felt happiness where you and your soul both were happy.If this moment comes  everyday in your life then feel blessed and understand you’re living in synchronization with universe.

You know why majority of people live in stress because they’re competing for ownership;they want to posses everything around them in this world and this snatches away their freedom and excitement.

“Freedom is in gratification not in ownership”-Rajesh Walecha

Exuberance comes with freedom;live free and live with excitement always.My question to you is are you here to collect gravels,stones,walls of bricks and concrete and paper.I am sure your answer will be “NO”.If it is so then go enjoy and spread your arms for universe and say,” Universe,I love you.”

Say it again and again  and say it loudly “Universe I love you for all your blessings” 

This is your life,your moment and your universe, enjoy and live freely with exuberance.


Are you really free?

Merely saying the word “Freedom” does not make us free.We all are living in the lockup of thoughts.

If you want to live free then leave the thoughts’ tree.

We all are in a grip of thoughts.I am sure this is giving you little bit of uncanny feelings,but this is true.

Thoughts are not actually lockup basically they are flow of universal energy.They become lockup when we cling to them and start flowing with them.

We can feel free  and call our-self a free individual, when we are not affected by our thoughts.

We usually live our life in the shadow of thoughts and even do not try to decode them.

When we wake up in the morning we feel enthusiastic,happy and prosperous,but the moment brain initiates thought process we decide the type of day and life we’ll have ahead.This is what which is happening with every individual in this world.No matter,how rich or poor the person is but he is infected with thoughts’ lockup.

How to free ourselves from the lockup of thoughts.

This is not an easy process to make our-self free from the lockup of thoughts but it is not impossible.

  • The first important step to make yourself free is to whack all the fears,because you are here to live for not to die for.
  • Whenever any negative thought comes to your mind do not cling to it,let it go.
  • Feel you are a king of your individuality hence live like king.
  • Avoid social pressures.
  • Leave the mindset of “What others will say”.
  • Tell yourself everyday that you are a free bird.
  • Learn wisdom.

Break the walls of thoughts and make yourself free and live like king.