How To Be Happy And Enjoy Life…

You can worry for material things if you were born along with them. I am absolutely sure, I was not. Material things are hurdles to happiness in our life. If you think you are here for just earning money and basking in luxury, then you are deceiving yourself. Self-deception leads to sadness.

When I was a kid, every time I used to come across a sad face, I always wondered, “why is he serious, why doesn’t he smile?” These questions always bothered me.

With time, I understood that majority of us are fighting with ourselves. No other person is responsible for snatching our happiness. We are forcing ourselves every day to neglect this precious gift of life.

Before going deep into the thought, let me define happiness.

Happiness is a stage where heart, brain and soul are tuned in at the same frequency. If either of them stays out of tune, happiness will not stay there for long.

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  • Perceiving: It seems small and insignificant, but it is rather a very effective tool to implement when working towards a happier mindset. It acts as a fulcrum for life and so the happiness.

 I have heard lot of people who say that if you want to feel happy, just be happy; but it did not convince me. I asked them to elaborate and their answer was the same again “Just be happy.”

Every time people come across this question, they blurt out the same robotic answer; a fact which left me with a major conclusion, “All of us  are pretending to be happy…but… in reality, no one is actually happy.”

So, giving in to my curiosity and the wish to make sure that I don’t fall prey to this trap of ‘Pretentious Happiness’, I decided to implement some ways, which, according to me, will help me to build a truly happier mindset….

I was in the middle of the day and started perceiving that “I am happy” irrespective of the material gains or possessions. I started doing it, I started to look for happier people and faces around me, tried smiling genuine and unconditional smiles. And I must say, that although it doesn’t sound like a huge feat in my pursuit, but it had a major impact in my day, I genuinely felt happier.

But, when I tried to inculcate this habit further, I ran across a major road block…Often, when we try to work on such abstract ideas, our minds often questions it, asking us regarding the practical and logical aspects of it! And, not to mention, here too, my mind pulled me back, deeming this feat to be wastage of time. Well, If I may, I must warn you here. This is your defense mechanism, playing tricks on you! Living in a world as fast-paced as ours, we are too habitual to sadness, hence, whenever we try to act otherwise, our mind tries to deceive us into believing that it’s not something normal or worthwhile!
So, I took a deep breathe and continued in my quest to be happy , unconditionally!

      

 

 

 

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Saturday Special…

 

  • Life is a print out of thoughts written by you on the screen of universe.

 

  • We call achievements of patterns and trends as ‘Luck.’

 

  • He who achieves ‘imagination’ is a super human being.

 

  • If earning good name and fame is success then when we will earn our-self.

 

  • Earlier hunting animals was and today hunting money is a success story.
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  • She keeps on smiling,telling and yelling; we avoid her all the time,the inbuilt success programmer for our life-she is our inner voice.

 

  • Sun fills color in our life and Moon fills peace.

 

  • Universe is a living entity, he will always help you, if you’ll ask and believe in him.

 

  • We are eating upon Earth and Time is eating upon us.

© Rajesh Walecha

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Quote of the day…

Rajesh’s quotes

 

“If words are power then silence is superpower.”— Rajesh Walecha

 

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Un-box the new day…

Wow! This new day is embedded with new hopes, very attractive and slim looks, full of promises and bright future.This new day has competed twelve dark hours to reach you. Do not take it for granted and do not waste it by just counting  as a day. It is a beautiful gift from the Universe.

When dew drops shower its beauty your way

When green grass holds it like diamond

When birds chirp and plants creep

It’s not the time to sleep

Wake up because life is knocking your gate

Get up and go out universe is pouring new day

 

How to un-box the new day

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Show your gratitude to the new day.

Welcome it with new and bright hope.

Embrace it with new and positive thoughts.

Always remember it is unique to you and your life.

 

Have a great ‘NEW DAY

Quote Of The Day…

Rajesh’s quotes

“Strive like a seed to grow”— Rajesh Walecha

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Happiness in Archive…

 

||I'm progressing,says the world
Trying to look stunning for the world
Moving across the path of time
Molding the truth and trying to shine||

||I do not know the origin of the Earth
Pushing self to catch-hold as everything is mine
World is so soft, giving everything for which I'm trying||

||I do not see,what others are facing
I always see,either I'm racing or not racing
I always forget, I am crossing the brook of time
I always forget, life is a treble
In the end it'll bring me sand and pebbles||

||Still it mesmerizes me called the gain
I forget and avoid every pain
Parallel universe calls it crazy
I call it success,if not achieved,world will call me lazy||

||I forget that kiss of birth is success
I am not a phoenix who'll regenerate from ashes
I forget that I'm trying to earn the name and fame
Both are not mine,whereas are the world's game||

||I know, I'm marching blindly
trying to attain that world called success
No doubt I've registered and will achieve
But why I am putting my happiness in archive|| © Rajesh Walecha
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Saturday Special…

Our life has objective because God took nine months to build and shape it.

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The first act we did after birth was  cry,hence don’t suppress it.

Our great ancestors were also not sure about their future, hence do not worry, live your life.

The only person who can scare you is ‘you’.

“All the rich and Kings remain happy” this is just our notion.

If you think money is everything then, why the rich dies?

 

Quotes © Rajesh Walecha