How To Be Happy And Enjoy Life…

You can worry for material things if you were born along with them. I am absolutely sure, I was not. Material things are hurdles to happiness in our life. If you think you are here for just earning money and basking in luxury, then you are deceiving yourself. Self-deception leads to sadness.

When I was a kid, every time I used to come across a sad face, I always wondered, “why is he serious, why doesn’t he smile?” These questions always bothered me.

With time, I understood that majority of us are fighting with ourselves. No other person is responsible for snatching our happiness. We are forcing ourselves every day to neglect this precious gift of life.

Before going deep into the thought, let me define happiness.

Happiness is a stage where heart, brain and soul are tuned in at the same frequency. If either of them stays out of tune, happiness will not stay there for long.

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  • Perceiving: It seems small and insignificant, but it is rather a very effective tool to implement when working towards a happier mindset. It acts as a fulcrum for life and so the happiness.

 I have heard lot of people who say that if you want to feel happy, just be happy; but it did not convince me. I asked them to elaborate and their answer was the same again “Just be happy.”

Every time people come across this question, they blurt out the same robotic answer; a fact which left me with a major conclusion, “All of us  are pretending to be happy…but… in reality, no one is actually happy.”

So, giving in to my curiosity and the wish to make sure that I don’t fall prey to this trap of ‘Pretentious Happiness’, I decided to implement some ways, which, according to me, will help me to build a truly happier mindset….

I was in the middle of the day and started perceiving that “I am happy” irrespective of the material gains or possessions. I started doing it, I started to look for happier people and faces around me, tried smiling genuine and unconditional smiles. And I must say, that although it doesn’t sound like a huge feat in my pursuit, but it had a major impact in my day, I genuinely felt happier.

But, when I tried to inculcate this habit further, I ran across a major road block…Often, when we try to work on such abstract ideas, our minds often questions it, asking us regarding the practical and logical aspects of it! And, not to mention, here too, my mind pulled me back, deeming this feat to be wastage of time. Well, If I may, I must warn you here. This is your defense mechanism, playing tricks on you! Living in a world as fast-paced as ours, we are too habitual to sadness, hence, whenever we try to act otherwise, our mind tries to deceive us into believing that it’s not something normal or worthwhile!
So, I took a deep breathe and continued in my quest to be happy , unconditionally!

      

 

 

 

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Happiness in Archive…

 

||I'm progressing,says the world
Trying to look stunning for the world
Moving across the path of time
Molding the truth and trying to shine||

||I do not know the origin of the Earth
Pushing self to catch-hold as everything is mine
World is so soft, giving everything for which I'm trying||

||I do not see,what others are facing
I always see,either I'm racing or not racing
I always forget, I am crossing the brook of time
I always forget, life is a treble
In the end it'll bring me sand and pebbles||

||Still it mesmerizes me called the gain
I forget and avoid every pain
Parallel universe calls it crazy
I call it success,if not achieved,world will call me lazy||

||I forget that kiss of birth is success
I am not a phoenix who'll regenerate from ashes
I forget that I'm trying to earn the name and fame
Both are not mine,whereas are the world's game||

||I know, I'm marching blindly
trying to attain that world called success
No doubt I've registered and will achieve
But why I am putting my happiness in archive|| © Rajesh Walecha
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How to be unpopular in the ‘WHY ME’ world…

What will be your reaction if you enter the room; people sitting there tell you their rules for to live happily in that room like standing beside chair,looking outside the window and acting your way is not allowed.If you’ll not follow the rules you’ll not be lucky. What will you do?

Will you accept their rules?

Will you scream ” WHY ME?”

Will you innovate and make your standpoint a trend?

The Unconventional Guide to Heaven and Happiness…

 

Rajesh’s quotes

“Heaven is a place where everything is beautiful,life is full of comforts,where every good imagination exists in reality,where efforts are less and results are perfect.Heaven is a place where every creation of universe is taken care with utmost respect and love.Heaven is a place where love exists in the form of care not in the form of lust. Heaven is a place where language of love and care exists.”— Rajesh Walecha

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Happiness…

Rajesh’s quotes

“Beauty is not beauty unless it is framed;life is not life unless it is lived happily!”— Rajesh Walecha

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Why Dimensionless Reality will change your life…

Are you obsessed with reality? If it is so, I’d say you are not living your life fully. Of-course you’re amazed and I am absolutely sure about it. May I ask one question; though I am not a teacher but this questions will definitely take you to the other side of your thought process.

What is reality?

This question will definitely force you to ponder upon. Allow me to explain my version about reality.

Reality means the things, situations and thoughts which have dimensions,visual effects  and we can touch,see and feel them. If it is not so we do not count it as real. Things which do not have dimensions,visual effects; we call it either a dream or sometime Imagination and they can be converted into dimensions provided if we work on them regularly.

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The secret is;imagination and dreaming are possible only when we become dimensionless,hence whenever we imagine and dream at that time our existence becomes dimensionless.

Make an imagination podium in your writing room and stand there with closed eyes, it will give you dimensionless realities. I have one in my writing room.

  • Do imagination exercise daily.
  • Try to imagine good things.
  • Explore different world which is real with infinite dimensions.
  • Surpass your senses.
  • Imagine as big as you can.
  • Instead working physically work with your frequency.
  • Use your brain energy.
  • Align brain with universe.
  • Never expect instant results.
  • Tuning with universe is the key.

Hence whatever you see,imagine and dream all is real just capture and convert them into reality.

 

Quote for the day…

Rajesh’s quotes

“Destiny of leaves lies beyond storming winds not beyond silent breeze.”— Rajesh Walecha

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